Epiphanies
Me: I would love it if Idris Elba were James Bond.
Dad: ...are you sure?
Me: (ready to get mad) YEAH DAD WHY WOULDN'T I
Dad: Well, it's just... James Bond as a character is misogynistic so would you really want to see him in that role? Treating women badly?
Me: *speechless* I... I don't know. Probably not now that I think about it.
Dad: James Bond is iconic but he is a jerk to women. It's what the franchise is built on.
Me: oh my god
Dad: there are other roles where Idris can wear a suit and is a badass that you won't hate
Me: holy shit
Dad: are you ok
Me: oh my god